I’m Taras, also known as TJ. (I used the stage name TjTantra for years professionally.)
Real massage from someone who cares more about meeting you than performing professionalism.
I’ve been in this field full-time since 2016 — not in a clinical setting, but in gay subculture, in sex work, in the adult industry, in communities most therapists won’t touch. I’ve worked for agencies, running with a massage table on my shoulders. This path has taught me things that no certification ever could.
Most bodywork professionals hide behind certificates and protocol
They care about looking professional more than meeting you, and I learned early that doesn’t work. Most don’t even want to speak or understand what clients are actually saying — they see everything through their own lens only. We speak different languages, use the same words but mean different things. For ten years I’ve watched what actually helps people — and it’s never the credentials. It’s always the person. I shifted from being “too professional” to genuinely open-minded, learning to listen instead of impose. Kindness isn’t a luxury — it’s the actual medicine.
I used to be the same — my way was the only way. If you didn’t like it, I could go, but money first. During somatic sex education training, I learned something completely different: it’s about your pleasure, not mine. It’s about being fully present — with breath, with body, with mind, being here and now. That’s when the shift happens. My job is to listen to what the client is asking for, understand their needs and benefits beforehand, and trust their wisdom about what they want. That changed everything.
My offering
I offer embodied physical contact through various modalities — Deep Tissue & Stretching, Thai, Lomi Lomi, Erotic Flow, Tantric approaches, Lingam work, Rosebud Massage, Prostate Awakening (the most sacred work), Edging, and new pleasure pathways. Each approach meets your body and desires differently. Whether you’re seeking straightforward massage, sensual and erotic touch, naked massage with presence, or exploration that expands your boundaries — I meet you where you are, authentically. No performance. Real human contact from someone who’s learned that presence matters more than technique.
**Somatic Bodywork** — It’s about soma: your body as an intelligent system that remembers everything — even what your mind forgot, whether through natural loss or trauma. Your body holds wisdom beyond conscious access; it’s your hard drive of past experience. This work creates real nervous system change through embodiment and felt sense — learning new skills through direct experience, not information. It includes specialized anal opening work (rarely discussed, deeply taboo) for those seeking it. Your body knows. We learn together.
You reach out with what you’re looking for — or share ideas and references if you can’t name it. Even something simple like “I’m looking for a sensual naked massage” is enough. Before we meet, I need to understand what brings you to this work. Deep conversation isn’t a must if you’re not ready — what matters is that I understand what you’re seeking. The deeper conversation can happen after the massage, when you feel comfortable opening up.
How it works
Years ago I learned something that changed how I understand this work: most people who came to me weren’t seeking performance or technique. They came for something simpler and deeper — a hug, cuddles, human warmth at the end of a naked massage. Men of all ages and shapes. All of them hungry for this. And for many of them, that simple hug opened a door. Permission to explore themselves. Permission to want more. Permission to ask for what they actually needed. That taught me how much we’ve narrowed what’s possible, how starved we’ve become for simple, genuine contact without hidden expectations or further obligations. When someone needs to pay for a naked hug, it tells us something about how isolated we’ve allowed ourselves to become.
Here, now, that feels different. This work is an opening — to presence, to touch, to being met as you are. To discovering what happens when someone shows up without performance, without agenda, and meets you exactly where you are. What unfolds from there is your to discover together.
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